It is possible to truly value someone and yet seriously wonder if you are really a good match with them?
What does it mean? Are your initial feelings about them an illusion?
Why is there so much struggle and good at the same time?
I read a quote one time that said “without struggle there is no growth.” This is a mantra I have told myself over and over again and one I really believe to be true.
How do you know if it’s actually growth or just needless struggle? And when do you know to just let go of the struggle so maybe the actual growth can happen?…just because there’s growth does not mean you will stay connected to said thing/situation/person…maybe that growth means you have to let go.
What makes a “good” match/friend/lover anyways?